How to choose your favorite sex toy
I have been a purchaser of sex toys for many years. I remember when I bought my first vibrator, it was blue and like 8 inches! It had ‘veins’ going around and across it just as if it were the real thing. It vibrated and was Jelly material, which is pretty soft and comfy. It wasn’t too big or too wide it was just right. Man I loved that toy!
So how would you pick your favorite, or new favorite, toy?
Initially, you will want to start off by first deciding if you (or the lucky lady you are buying for) are a clit stimulation kind of girl, or a vaginal penetration kind of girl, maybe even a little of both? Secondly, you want to decide if you want a realistic looking and feeling toy or would you prefer something funky and new age? (There are a lot of new sex toys nowadays that don’t even look like sex toys!) Once you decide which parts of the goodies you would like to tingle and what you would like your new toy to look like, then you should be ready to choose a toy.
Now where will you go?
Will you use one of those cool super sex toy stores that offer everything sexy under the sun? That small sex toy shop off the highway (Have you been there lately?) Or maybe you could just go online there are millions of sex toy websites there, in fact, here’s one: www.msquiraasgoodies.com.
How do you decide what you like?
I am here to help you get your orgasms on the right track. There are many different sex toys on the market today, there are micro sized (finger sized) all the way to giant sized (13+ inches), waterproof toys, and yes don’t forget, wearable ones. The one(s) you choose depends on what you like.
That’s where I come in.
Like I said before, the most common way to choosing a toy is based on your sexual stimulation. A lot of women have great orgasms from clitoral stimulation while others have great ones through penetration. For me, I love a little of both. If you are clitorally stimulated (orgasms occur from clitoral touching, kissing etc.) then bullet toys and massagers will work great for you. There are many types of bullets, they go from silver bullets all the way to mini animal resembling stimulators. The massagers are usually inconspicuous because they look like handheld neck massagers and some are even mini. Bullets and massagers are commonly used on the clitoral area of the vagina and come waterproof for your intimate tub or shower experience. As you can see, there are lots of clitoral stimulators to choose from.
Now if you are a penetration stimulated (orgasms occur from vaginal insertion) lady, then dildos and vibrators will work great for you. Dildos and vibrators come in all sorts of shapes and sizes and are used by inserting into the vagina to provide great pleasure. Penetrators come beaded, thick, curved (G-spot toys) and slender. Depending on your preference, some are long for cervical stimulation and some are short for G-spot stimulation. Included in vaginal penetration toys, strap-ons are also great, with these a dong (attachable dildo) is worn by a partner for vaginal insertion. These come in a variety of shapes and sizes as well. Again, so many kinds of dildos and vibrators to choose from.
Now, if you are a dual penetration (orgasms occur from vaginal and clitoral stimulation) type of woman, there are many options for you (I know because I am one). The reason I say you have many options is because with a dual penetration orgasmer, both types of toys can be used. Bullets and vibrators can both be enjoyed for sex play. Let the orgasms begin!
So choosing your favorite sex toy is all going to depend on what type of stimulation you prefer. Once you know what you like you can buy your new best friend!
Ms. QuiraA is an Intimate Life Coach and owner/operator of Goodies, Sex Resource Center. For more information on erotic adult sex education workshops visit me at www.msquiraasgoodies.com
